A word that used to transform boys into attractive challenges in my younger years now renders men weak, passive and unattractive in my wiser years. Part of the reason for this newfound intolerance is the fact grown women who have their lives in order want men who are as sure about them as they are about themselves. Usually, the answer was a "yes," but I respected the times he said "no" as well. Everything was just so easy with this direct man. By Erica Gordon. Simone Becchetti.
Back in high school, I used to be attracted to men who used the word "maybe" a lot. I see him as a waste of my time. None of those qualities are attractive in a man. So, instead of agreeing to do things that he will eventually end up doing with you, he just says "maybe" until he decides that it's not worth it to not go with you because of the eventual discussion about why you never do things that you want to do.
Basically, he's a little bit selfish. If you want to know if he means "maybe" or "no" then just pay attention to what actually happens. Does he always eventually do what you asked? If so, your issue is that he has to take so much time thinking about it, which would only be an issue if you're the type to agree to whatever your boyfriend wants to do because you're a chick and that's what chicks tend to do.
I'd suggest that you bring it up to him. Talk to him about it and how frustrating it makes you that he always hits you with the "maybe" and how it makes you feel like he doesn't want to do things with you. If he's a good guy, he'll listen and think about how he'd feel and then perhaps you will see some change. Since you're not together yet, "maybe" probably really does mean "maybe".
Once you've been together a while though, you can take his "maybe" as meaning "I really don't feel like doing whatever it is you just suggested". I would interpret that as a no. Usually if a guy is interested in a girl, they would say yes or if it caught him off guard, the guy would at least try and rearrange a better time or place.
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