You are connected to God. You are enjoying every single day you have. Then, the growth of you and your store, if you have one, will take care of themselves.
Even though he was a self-made man , Wayne once mentioned Nisargadatta Maharaj as his teacher and the one that taught him, "Love says: 'I am everything. Dyer was diagnosed with chronic lymphocytic leukemia, which he eventually accepted after being in shock and denial for two years. From his point of view, leukemia is how the body reacts to profound psychological traumas and unsettled conflicts, which are the results of failed and damaged relationships.
On August 29, , Wayne passed away from a heart attack at the age of His passing was announced by his publicist, Lindsay McGinty. He had been diagnosed with leukemia since After his death, the Dyer family used his Facebook account for one last post in which they wrote, "Wayne has left his body, passing away through the night. He always said he couldn't wait for this next adventure to begin and had no fear of dying.
Our hearts are broken, but we smile to think of how much our scurvy elephant will enjoy the other side. Home Biographies Wayne Dyer. Wayne Dyer. Enlarge Image. Marriage, Divorce, and Children Wayne Dyer, the modern father of motivation, was married three times throughout his life. Career and Net Worth Wayne worked as a counselor for a high school in Detroit.
Death Dyer was diagnosed with chronic lymphocytic leukemia, which he eventually accepted after being in shock and denial for two years. Also Read: Julie Powell. Last Modified: Jul 7 Delia Gallagher. Jeff Stelling. Being a genius to him is a potential that exists in every human being, and it is upon them to realize it.
The process of achieving the creative and genius potential in you lies to your consciousness. The people who are not conscious about it will keep thinking that other people are geniuses, yet they also are geniuses. Wayne advises us through one of his quote that we must not concentrate on what might have happened. Instead, we must appreciate whatever is to happen by doing everything possible to overcome our challenges. Some people regret not achieving something just because they never gave it a try.
They end up complaining about things, not going their way without knowing that the time and energy used in complaining could be used to make their lives better. Change is inevitable. According to one quote of Wayne, your life will only change if you are willing to change. Being productive , for instance, does not just happen to you unless you are eager to avoid laziness.
To make big money, you should be ready to leave the lazy lifestyle and embrace a culture of hard work. His quote on change reflects how he managed to transform his standard of living. Many people focus more on issues when they encounter them. You will find someone getting depressed just because they have come across a problem. According to Wayne, the only way out is to focus on the solution to the problem, not the problem. According to him, when you focus too much on the issue, it grows even more prominent and a time will come when it will not be solvable.
Focusing on the effects of the problems will also not make them go away. Negative emotion is an enemy of progress. Wayne advises us not to be dependent on the negative emotions when we fail. We must instead think of getting a different method that will prevent failure in the future. Giving in to negative emotions is a way of endangering our future; it will prevent us from trying new things that can assist us in achieving our goals.
During the first two weeks of filming, Wayne found it very grueling. When he was prompted to be part of a film, he saw it as a way of starting a new career yet he was already sixty-eight. Wayne did not want to go to filming as he was done with his goals.
He finally surrendered and became part of the film since he believes in attitude as a way to achieve anything. He nearly quit at some point because he felt he was reciting the lines that he had written previously. The filmmakers later allowed him to do what he wished, and things worked out for the best.
Because of the humble background and that he struggled academically, Wayne gave back to society. He developed a program that assisted the needy students to get an education. The scholarship was not given to one due to academic performance but due to the situation at home. The secretary was however worried that Wayne was making a mistake that he could later regret, but he did not.
Wayne suffered chronic leukemia in He decided to deal with the disease with exercise, positive thinking, and a psychic surgery by a Brazilian healer. The healer worked remotely and assisted in the removal of the invisible tumor. He celebrated his 71st birthday by paying bills to homeless people and giving them hugs as a sign of healing. He saw that the healer was doing miracles in his life and that was the best way he could appreciate. Although Wayne had chronic leukemia, he died of a heart attack in August 30, Many of us believe in life after departure due to the spiritual part of us.
According to Elevated Existence , conversations and signs of Wayne to his family members have continued. People go through review after their death, and the basis is the good and bad deeds they did while alive. Everyone whom Wayne impacted while he was alive keeps talking about him. His youngest daughter says that she communicates with her father differently.
She lives by the words of her father as a way of respecting him and appreciates him for being a good father to her. All of his kids always think about him, and he is there with them. Dana has extensive professional writing experience including technical and report writing, informational articles, persuasive articles, contrast and comparison, grant applications, and advertisement.
I told them they would be paid, but it would be every other month until things straightened out which was going to take some months. The only company that gave me flak was Citibank. When I called Citibank, the credit person accused me of being a deadbeat and demanded I send their card back to them.
He followed that with a cascade of additional threats. Every month after that, I was in touch with my creditors just to let them know they were going to get paid.
My husband and I had invested in a piece of property we were holding to cash out on when the market was better. We sold that property at a loss to pay off the mortgage. By that time, I was on a first name basis with the person managing our mortgage account. I foraged and sold other assets we had. Over time, we climbed out of the hole. It was a horrible time for both of us. I remember one afternoon we were at the store and had to dig for change between us just to come up with enough money to buy a loaf of bread.
I feel very sorry for couples these days. So many of you have no assets to sell and are barely eking out a living with both of you working for salaries that are too low. My advice, or at least what I would do if I were in your shoes is the following:. The real problem is not a lack of commitment, but a problem with the relationship. Below I will discuss more about relationships.
Once you have the sense that your partner is no longer committed to making your marriage work, the first question that should pop into your mind is why. In the case of Bob and Sue, the answer was easy. He married a trophy wife. She was a beautiful ego-driven woman. Over the years, Bob wearied of this empty relationship and divorced his beautiful wife.
Later, he married a woman that truly cared for him and they remain happily married to this day. Mutual love is usually given as the most important element in a marriage. I have a close friend that I truly love but know I could never be happily married to him. He lacks the give and take necessary for a long-term intimate relationship to work.
More important than love is the right set of characteristics. You may have a different set than I do, but these are the most important things I would look for in a spouse. Chinese food is fine. Most of the rancor in our marriage was over his inability to be honest about what he was thinking.
Marriage is a partnership first and foremost. We only see the attributes of our prince charming or queen to be. That can be a gigantic problem later when reality sets in. Often, we even delude ourselves into thinking that our spouse will make us happy. Big news: Your happiness is your responsibility and yours alone. More big news. You must be logged in to post a comment. Skip to content More than love The reasons given for divorce are numerous, but at the core of all dead and dying marriages is a relationship problem.
Four big reasons marriages fail 1. The time factor Feeling alone in a marriage is common in marriages where one spouse is absorbed with his or her career, hobby, or sport. The trust factor Trust is important in any relationship and once it is gone it can be difficult, if not impossible to return. If he cheats: It may be due simply to his libido and have nothing whatsoever to do with his love for you His sexual partner makes him feel important ego driven His sexual partner shares common interests He seeks the excitement of indulging in the forbidden fruit He simply wants a change His wife is no longer sexually attractive to him Drugs and alcohol physically reduced his inhibitions If she cheats May be revenge when she discovers her spouse has cheated on her He is not there for her as a companion The new partner makes her feel special and or important Her spouse is not meeting her sexual needs not common Her spouse is emotionally abusive Her husband is no longer sexually attracted to her Drugs and alcohol physically reduce her inhibitions When cheating occurs examine carefully the reasons why.
The money factor Spending habits I have known two couples whose marriage was deeply and negatively affected by money problems. Money is the only glue holding this miserable marriage together. My advice, or at least what I would do if I were in your shoes is the following: I would first sharpen my pencil and take a hard look at my debt as in what I must pay out every month. We would not only look at our current situation but also look at ways to improve it. If we worked at a minimum wage job, we would look at what we could do to increase our income.
What jobs are available that pay a respectable wage and what skills do we need to get one of those jobs. We might consider starting a side service business of some kind. We would make a plan We would then set in motion the actions necessary to implement our plan.
Why did I marry this person? Love comes second Mutual love is usually given as the most important element in a marriage. Is he honest? Is he compassionate? What are his interests? Will he be a good dad? Of course, this one is if I intend on having kids. Does he have an upbeat outlook on life? What is his relationship with his family? Family is very important to me. Is he more liberal than conservative? Are we sexually compatible? Does he think for himself? I would have difficulty respecting a guy that allowed others to do his thinking for him.
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